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Eric Nehrlich, Unrepentant Generalist

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Alignment to Reality

Posted on March 11, 2021March 11, 2021 by Eric

“Are you able to be with this exactly the way it is with no agenda to change it?” I learned this powerful question in Steve March’s Aletheia Coaching training, and it continues to knock my socks off as a tool to help me discover when I am not fully present and accepting of reality as […]

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Alignment with Aspiration

Posted on February 25, 2021February 26, 2021 by Eric

Find out who you are, and do it on purpose. — Dolly Parton In my ongoing series on alignment, I’ve described how I think alignment can be more powerful than hierarchical power, and why it can be challenging to find alignment within oneself. In this post, I want to expand on finding a purpose for […]

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Alignment to Self

Posted on February 14, 2021February 14, 2021 by Eric

Following up on my last post introducing the alignment model, I want to share how this model applies to personal development. When I first met Jerry Weinberg in person in 2009 at the Amplifying Your Effectiveness conference, he talked a lot about congruence, and I had no idea what he was talking about. Admittedly, that’s […]

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2020 Year in Review

Posted on January 3, 2021January 3, 2021 by Eric

My priorities for 2020, as they have been for the last couple years, were to focus on my family, and to grow my coaching business. Having those priorities clear for myself made it easier to navigate the volatile year of 2020. Family came first, then my clients and coaching business, and everything else got dropped […]

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Clarity and Focus

Posted on November 5, 2020November 5, 2020 by Eric

People occasionally ask me what I’ve learned in my first couple years as a leadership coach. The unspoken question is “What is the secret to being a better leader?” And while there is no secret per se, there is a formula I see consistently among people who have more impact: Clarity plus Focus. As context, […]

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What You Do is Who You Are, by Ben Horowitz

Posted on July 28, 2020July 28, 2020 by Eric

Amazon link Ben Horowitz is best known at this point for being half of Andreessen Horowitz, a leading Silicon Valley venture capital firm. He wrote this book to answer the question: How do you as an organizational leader create and sustain the culture you want? As his book site summarizes, “To Horowitz, culture is how […]

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It’s About Damn Time, by Arlan Hamilton

Posted on July 8, 2020 by Eric

Amazon link Book site I first heard of Arlan Hamilton on the Startup podcast a couple years ago, and her story was amazing as a queer Black once-homeless woman without a college degree who decided to diversify Silicon Valley venture capital through sheer force of will. I was recently reminded of her when she opened […]

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The Willpower Instinct, by Kelly McGonigal

Posted on June 21, 2020June 21, 2020 by Eric

[n.b. This may seem like a weird time to publish this book summary given my last couple posts, but I actually got this book from a physical library in the pre-Covid times, and the library is re-opening, so I have to return it soon. Plus, I do think it is relevant to anti-racism work to […]

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Letting go of the Hero mindset

Posted on April 2, 2020April 2, 2020 by Eric

I’ve been thinking about personal responsibility this week, and how I align what I take responsibility for with what I control. In my own work with a coach, we’ve identified that I can get into a “Hero Eric” mindset where I try to make everything go right – I feel responsible for holding everything together […]

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The Interruption Opportunity

Posted on March 24, 2020March 24, 2020 by Eric

As the coronavirus is wreaking havoc with our lives, I have been reflecting on what opportunities can be found in this tumultuous time. I wrote on LinkedIn about the value I am finding in an abundance mindset where I appreciate and give thanks for what I still have, and I wanted to expand on that […]

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About me: I'm an unrepentant generalist finding my way in a world of specialists. I started this blog to review books, but I later expanded to write on whatever interested me across a range of topics.

I am also an executive coach, helping leaders become more effective by creating clarity and acting with purpose. You can learn more about my coaching at Too Many Trees, or by checking out my posts about coaching. I also regularly share coaching insights around leadership and personal development on LinkedIn, and you can sign up for my substack list to get biweekly emails with my latest blog posts and content:

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