{"id":1690,"date":"2017-01-01T09:55:27","date_gmt":"2017-01-01T16:55:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/?p=1690"},"modified":"2020-11-19T07:37:15","modified_gmt":"2020-11-19T15:37:15","slug":"2016-year-in-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2017\/01\/01\/2016-year-in-review\/","title":{"rendered":"2016 Year in Review"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/01\/29\/2015-year-in-review\/>I pushed my limits physically and mentally last year<\/a>, this year was a much quieter year &#8211; let&#8217;s call it the Year of Recovery. <\/p>\n<p>The big event for me personally in 2016 was that I had a traumatic bike crash on May 3rd. I was on a morning ride with some faster guys, and descending a road I knew well (84 from Skyline). I was taking the turns a little faster than usual, confident in my skills and trying to keep up with the bike racers, and so I was going close to 30 mph when I whipped around a turn and hit the bump shown here (it hadn&#8217;t been there previously, and was less visible until the cops circled it in orange when they showed up to direct traffic after the crash).<a href=https:\/\/goo.gl\/photos\/w5gxW9ajubei5HpAA><img src=https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/8ieb9VtnuPq0THKeu3bakZZwmC4pOrnxA_3qHpEn_yBS0O9bFdWdj-UjaKTnquLy6yP2V-o-3Pd2lzJ48IoZcTTD9jYswGC3sWaNnMtAvD-cpDHAHfLGYNuoNb3l26Cw-aeWFPJOaeWQEu5sS-pEPRbr2hLOLFtInmrEgjj73-y-tWLeQDLUsCOJuW9YckUSJ6yi8HGmpYI_m_wb7ZPp2uqh6iDtyf5troyEGUf98ABs_VsFbvL8N52JBSw2bSjsMFBWOoQe_uwFARyn2fgZEBDZj3Oorl9joggnFPLI6NpdrgJBAZEFVL4OZz1Hzo8aSX80F8f3CAhHU4YxFqhTjTFSxgh4HWAiLYHcvyyGVJ-Ohr_WbCzSdddfmnXlXLYdFF8-BzIHfTwfwZ7Ps5G8NwPOS0b6GK27kg8zY0s09TaGdhEomyDL3lYRyaxAhBZjeThSMPxf4YglNVhVOMmXXIkZT06yvT2KGcMIKZAL5nCY-UdaBYcEAn1kdBxxpatY_YEozGPGNJQL4eRfeKSLE2NQoC0mqdkIKmC8fnOhUGAmbcFCcEMAOSXgHsIQr5VH_Ejp8nlGZueVNKXhIUHHJEjcOGtAUVuob0yngth86aAFsIiDfFRyuA=w1200-h900-no align=right width=200 height=150><\/a> I lost control and went off the road &#8211; no cars were involved, thankfully. The guys I was riding with called 911, and I woke up on the side of the road with the paramedics there, but no memory of what happened. I was taken to the hospital on a backboard in an ambulance, and was diagnosed with a severe concussion (two brain contusions visible on the CT scan) and two fractured vertebrae (C6\/C7 &#8211; yes, I literally broke my neck). But I was very fortunate that it wasn&#8217;t worse &#8211; I could easily have been paralyzed or killed. I had to wear a neck brace that immobilized my neck for three months while the vertebrae healed, and do a bunch of physical therapy after it came off, but was able to avoid surgery, and am now mostly fully recovered. <\/p>\n<p>So much of 2016 was spent recovering physically and mentally from the bike crash. But it was a good opportunity to reflect on my life and what matters.<\/p>\n<p>And for me, it all comes back to people. My posts on <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/06\/23\/practicing-gratitude\/>gratitude<\/a> and <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/07\/10\/being-generous\/>generosity<\/a> were inspired by my renewed appreciation for the people in my life. I had a rotation of close friends coming by to visit in the weeks after my crash, bringing food or taking me out to dinner, but more importantly, helping me stay connected when I was home alone all day. <\/p>\n<p>This reminder of the importance of people also inspired me to focus more on helping people; in particular, I have spent more time on coaching and mentoring in 2016. My broad experience and perspective has been useful to a variety of people, including engineers, designers, entrepreneurs and non-profits (I&#8217;m now advising two non-profits, one as a <A href=http:\/\/datainteroperability.org\/board-of-directors\/>board director<\/a>, and one as an advisory board member). This was also the motivation behind <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/category\/thoughts\/selfdesign\/>my series of posts on how to design one&#8217;s life<\/a>. I have really enjoyed the time I have spent helping people find their path, and plan to make this a continued focus in 2017, including starting formal training as a coach. Please contact me if you are potentially interested in getting coaching or mentoring from me &#8211; you can read recommendations from a few people on <a href=https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/nehrlich>my LinkedIn page<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>Beyond the crash and coaching, my life has mostly remained the same:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I am still in the same job (it&#8217;s now been 8 years at Google, including 4 years in my current role as Chief of Staff to the product VP of AdWords).<\/li>\n<li>I am back to my sports:\n<ul>\n<li>I&#8217;m back on the bike, and it feels great, but I haven&#8217;t worked up the nerve to descend 84 yet, and am still very cautious on all descents.<\/li>\n<li>I played volleyball several times this fall (although my shoulder was still weak from the crash).<\/li>\n<li>I even went skiing and felt really good, and am looking forward to doing more this winter.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<li>I went to <A href=http:\/\/uptoallof.us\/>Up to All of Us<\/a> in February of 2016 and even led a couple sessions on <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/12\/be-the-change\/>how to drive change<\/a> during the retreat.\n<li>I went to the Overlap retreat in Minnesota in June even though I was still in the neck brace, as it&#8217;s one of my favorite weekends of the year. And I was thrilled to be chosen to be one of the organizers of the Overlap retreat in 2017, which will be in the Bay Area. Contact me for details.\n<li>I am continuing to explore my own mind, including therapy and <a href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/10\/28\/camp-calm-and-meditation\/>mindfulness\/meditation<\/a>.<\/ul>\n<p>One learning from 2016 that I want to remember is that I am strong and resilient. I was telling my therapist this summer about my fear of failure and stressing about whether I was doing &#8220;enough&#8221; to push my limits. And she looked at me and said something like &#8220;I&#8217;ve watched you get dumped and bounce back. And you&#8217;ve now broken your neck and are coming back from that. What more proof of your resilience do you need? Trust your resilience!&#8221; So I want to continue to push out of my comfort zone and trust my resilience to bounce back if and when I fail (but I&#8217;ll try to avoid breaking my neck again).  <\/p>\n<p>I have led a lucky and privileged life, and this year was yet another reminder of that &#8211; I survived my crash, and was very grateful to be working for a company that covered me while I recovered and to have insurance that paid for my medical care. I have a great set of friends, and am part of several communities that I value. I am looking for more opportunities to give back and share (per the thoughts in my last post on finding ways to help those around you), and hope that coaching will be a way to do so. Let&#8217;s close the books on 2016, and make plans to <A href=http:\/\/www.nehrlich.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/12\/be-the-change\/>change things for the better<\/a> in 2017. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After I pushed my limits physically and mentally last year, this year was a much quieter year &#8211; let&#8217;s call it the Year of Recovery. The big event for me personally in 2016 was that I had a traumatic bike crash on May 3rd. 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